We sometimes come across circumstances where we get emotionally confused.... which side to opt and support?... How to react?... How to answer the situations?...Should we speak out or Should we bare?.. Came across the same complex,unusual,critical situation... Perplexed I feel today....
This is the statement which i keep in mind every time i have to mitigate a circumstance in-front of me... But unfortunately our actions are controlled by our Heart and Brain both... Mostly the former one rules.. Therefore even the simple drop of water is seen as a flood...:/ our mind needs just one hint and our heart takes the whole initiative of building a huge story out of the simple word.. and then we REACT to it... after reacting when the whole situation has got worsened our mind starts working towards the unfortunate reaction and then we understand and feel sorry.. that is the time when we Respond...
By reading this piece of mine upto above point you might feel why this lecture-baazi... :);)
I am actually going through rough patches of situation right now.. don't know whether to react or respond.. when i think of responding i feel Is the other person worth it??!! Does He/She really deserve a calm and sophisticated answer towards the circumstances created??!! it's getting difficult for me to understand the mind-set of people out there... the unexpected reactions of my so called once upon a time loved ones provoked me to write this piece of mine...i think of what an puissant alchemy i use to share with them before, which suddenly unfortunately has turned boorish...,
Never minding the left ones.. stepping forward without looking back is the best remedy i feel... being reverent to people who once were a part of my life...i wish they held tight to travel towards my destiny... unfortunately as Life always hovers between accepting and rejecting... will overcome this as well:) :) and yess will not forget those who swayed along...grateful and thankful to those who has still held tight... this is what makes me move-on and live up my dreams...:) :) Life is balanced... not everyone is meant to be in your life....:);)
Someone rightly said..." ONE SHOULD RIGHTLY KNOW THE ART OF RESPONDING RATHER THAN REACTING TO THE SITUATIONS..."Responding- answering the situation with a positive approach. Reacting- answering the situation with a negative approach...
This is the statement which i keep in mind every time i have to mitigate a circumstance in-front of me... But unfortunately our actions are controlled by our Heart and Brain both... Mostly the former one rules.. Therefore even the simple drop of water is seen as a flood...:/ our mind needs just one hint and our heart takes the whole initiative of building a huge story out of the simple word.. and then we REACT to it... after reacting when the whole situation has got worsened our mind starts working towards the unfortunate reaction and then we understand and feel sorry.. that is the time when we Respond...
By reading this piece of mine upto above point you might feel why this lecture-baazi... :);)
I am actually going through rough patches of situation right now.. don't know whether to react or respond.. when i think of responding i feel Is the other person worth it??!! Does He/She really deserve a calm and sophisticated answer towards the circumstances created??!! it's getting difficult for me to understand the mind-set of people out there... the unexpected reactions of my so called once upon a time loved ones provoked me to write this piece of mine...i think of what an puissant alchemy i use to share with them before, which suddenly unfortunately has turned boorish...,
Never minding the left ones.. stepping forward without looking back is the best remedy i feel... being reverent to people who once were a part of my life...i wish they held tight to travel towards my destiny... unfortunately as Life always hovers between accepting and rejecting... will overcome this as well:) :) and yess will not forget those who swayed along...grateful and thankful to those who has still held tight... this is what makes me move-on and live up my dreams...:) :) Life is balanced... not everyone is meant to be in your life....:);)
